I find I’m pretty much constantly outraged these days. Let me clarify, I’m pretty much outraged at the state of Virginia there days.
It’s not good here in the Commonwealth. It hasn’t ever been good, that’s true, but it’s certainly getting worse than it has been. I don’t usually get all twisted up in the machinations of politicians. They do good and bad but they also come and go. Whether or not that’s the right perspective, it’s the perspective I find most allows me to recognize that it isn’t the person making these godforsaken decisions, it’s the politics. The “not the person” part is important to me, but it’s getting more challenging by the day.
The Governor of Virginia removed the protections for gays put into place by the previous governor. I consoled myself with the idea that the Virginia Senate passed an anti-discrimination discrimination bill. A bill that reportedly will not pass the House. But let’s not be negative. At least, not until we hear from Virginia Representative Bob Marshall (and I might as well just quote here) who said, “I think there first should be some finding that homosexuals, as a class, are being discriminated against. In all of my experience and reading, gay individuals seem to have more income, to attend more cultural events, to take more vacations than the rest of us. Show me where this discrimination is going on.’’ You can see that here, at the end of the article.
I’ll let you take a moment to consider that. While I take a vacation and go to a cultural event. Not to be outdone, Ken Cuchinelli, the State’s Attorney General opted to chime with an outrageously unreasonable roar that condones discrimination against gays. You can read the letter he sent to state schools here (it’s a PDF – so if you don’t want to open it, take my word that he’s an asshole).
Understandably, there was an outcry (this particular outcry comes from individuals at the university where I work). And honestly, I can’t believe we got to this point so quickly. I sat at my desk yesterday thinking about the chilling effect such changes have. I am already facing a delicate balance with my pregnant wife and soon-to-be-no-legal-relationship-to-me child. I had a moment where I wondered if it would be better to be closeted. And then another when I realized how many people would stay closeted because of this. If nothing else, It’s been a pretty bad March.
There was a moment of hope late this afternoon as the Governor appeared to distance himself from the AG. The local paper is running a ticker saying that he has reversed his original executive order. But really, I can’t believe I live somewhere that allows these shenanigans to go on. Yes, I could move, but I shouldn’t have to. It’s hard to blame the politics when the people do things like this.
Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa Claus but he’s got nothing but coal for your sorry ass.